Make it Mentionable with Alyssa Kulesa (formerly Alyssa Patmos)
Hi, I’m Alyssa Kulesa (formerly Alyssa Patmos) and I’m endlessly curious about how to human. In a world that discourages talking about the taboo, I bought a microphone. As Mister Rogers said, “Anything human is mentionable and anything mentionable is manageable.” I invite you to join me as we journey through the mess, the magic, and the mania in between because what we can talk about we can manage. This honest conversation extravaganza includes free-flowing conversations and high doses of vulnerability to remind you that you aren’t alone. No topic is off limits. Episodes are designed to leave you smarter (aka more self-aware) than when you came.
Make it Mentionable with Alyssa Kulesa (formerly Alyssa Patmos)
Pivot from Self-Help to Self-Growth
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Self-help can feel like a public bathroom. You know you have to go, but you don’t really want to use it. Change is easier when it elicits positive emotions like joy, pleasure, or hope. It’s harder when it elicits criticism, judgement, shame, and guilt. Self-help can quickly leave us feeling like there’s a laundry list of things to “fix” about ourselves. Pivot your perspective from self-help to self-growth to make the progress you’ve been longing for and watch your changes stick.
The show notes and transcript for the episode are available here: https://alyssapatmos.com/episodes/pivot-from-self-help-to-self-growth
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